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“It’s causing little rifts in our relationship that will end up in a major rift,” Shekinah explained during Season 6 Tell All of ’90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way’
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Shekinah and Sarper in Season 6 Tell All for 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way.
Shekinah reaches a breaking point when it comes to Sarper’s past that continues to haunt them.
The couple was confronted by another former lover during Season 6 Tell All of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way. On the November 18 episode, Sarper – who had just arrived in the United States on his K-1 visa – and Shekinah came face to face with DeeDee, an American therapist whom Sarper met three years earlier on a dating site.
On stage, DeeDee dropped several bombshells, including that she “remained in contact” with Sarper until November 2022, and that Sarper may be afraid of Shekinah’s “possessiveness” in their relationship.
Shekinah angrily walked off stage. Speaking to producers, she said she is tired of meeting people from her fiancé’s past this way.
“I’ve been dealing with this past since we met and I’m tired of it. It was the bottle collection, it was the ex’s outreach, it was his book. Now it’s this person. I’m tired of it,” Shekinah snapped.
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Shekinah chats with Sarper backstage during the Season 6 Tell All for 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way.
Sarper was visibly shocked when he saw DeeDee appear on screen for the first time at Tell All. Meanwhile, Shekinah asked DeeDee about her relationship with Sarper, but she wasn’t happy when she heard her fiancé’s former fling say, “I consider us friends.”
DeeDee did say that Sarper told her about Shekinah, claiming that she even offered to meet his then-girlfriend and “hang out if she wanted.” Shekinah immediately shut her down.
When host Shaun Robsinson asked DeeDee if she was still interested in meeting Shekinah, DeeDee replied, “Yes, but (Sarper) said no because she was possessive and unpredictable.”
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Shekinah wasn’t happy about being called “unpredictable” and made it clear that she wasn’t interested in meeting anyone else from Sarper’s past.
“It’s weird that she thought we could hang out,” Shekinah said. “Like that’s insane.”
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Sarper responds to some of DeeDee’s comments during the Season 6 Tell All for 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way.
At Sarper’s request, DeeDee firmly stated that she felt he would “never cheat” on Shekinah, and gave him a glowing review on how much he has grown since his days as president. have sex with almost 3,000 women.
“I think he will be very honest and very loyal (to Shekinah),” she told the group.
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But when asked if Sarper might be afraid of Shekinah, DeeDee expressed concern about the “possessiveness” Sarper has described to her, noting that he “doesn’t feel like he can go anywhere or have friends.”
“I think it seems a little toxic, and unhealthy in a lot of ways,” DeeDee admitted.
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Sarper sits alone on the couch during Season 6’s Tell All for 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way after Shekinah left the stage.
‘That’s fine. I don’t care what you think about our relationship,” Shekinah replied. She later added, “I just think it’s funny that you have that opinion, like you don’t even know him.”
Then DeeDee spilled some tea. “Well, us Doing text,” she said before admitting that she and Sarper had discussed meeting up several times.
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That was the final straw for Shekinah and she walked off stage. Speaking to a producer backstage at Tell All, Shekinah said she was “so upset” when she heard Sarper and DeeDee were texting in November.
“He has to be the man I want him to be,” Shekinah explained. “And if he doesn’t get it, we can’t walk down the aisle.”
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Shekinah chats with Corona and Meitalia during the Season 6 Tell All for 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way.
Back on stage, DeeDee dropped another bombshell by showing the group the long string of text messages on her phone from conversations with Sarper — even though he suggested they had only spoken “two or three times.”
James jumped to Sarper’s defense. “I feel like he handled it well, though, because he did say — even though he said that one weird thing — he did say, ‘I’m in a relationship.’ ”
But Shekinah still refused to leave her dressing room. “Unpredictable, I say!” Sarper exclaimed.
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Unlike Corona and Meitalia, Sarper did not immediately seek out Shekinah during the break to comfort her. Shekinah scolded him, “What took you so long to get here?”
“I know you can do better than that,” Shekinah said, but he argued, “We are in a social environment and we have to make everyone happy.”
“The only person you should worry about making happy is the person in your life,” Shekinah said before asking. “Is that woman in your life? … Is that other woman in your life? Why do you want to make her happy?”
Shekinah continued, “Your past has haunted us non-stop since we’ve been together,” though Sarper suggested “that’s normal.”
“I don’t want to have moments like this over and over again,” Shekinah explained. “It causes little rifts in our relationship that turn into a big rift. I promise you, I just know how these things go.”
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“You’re the winner, honey,” Sarper said, but Shekinah pushed back. “No one wins. If you start seeing yourself as a prize, then you have to behave like one.”
Eventually, Sarper and Shekinah reconciled with a hug. “Stop saying things like that!” Shekinah said as they hugged.
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90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way airs Mondays at 8PM ET/PT on TLC.